Friday, November 9, 2007

What a world we are living in!

This morning i feeling more shock again when i see again another new headline stated "5yr-old girl raped by family friend", this is not the first time we encounter with the such a headline in newspaper. we all know the case of a child called Nurin which got the attention all nation and even the world. I really can not figure it out what is on the mind of the rapist till they want to rape a such a young kid. What the most fucking things is that, i saw the words that in nurin case's news is that 'Nurin Jazlin's naked body was found on Monday with bruise marks on her neck, and a brinjal and cucumber inserted into her private parts'. After rape the small kid, the rapist still wanna to kill the kid and some more vegetables inserted in her private part! Their might think is a funny things but they never realise what their will feel when their own child be done the same!


After being raped it is common for the victim to experience intense, and sometimes unpredictable, emotions, and they may find it hard to deal with their memories of the event. Victims can be severely traumatized by the assault and may have difficulty functioning as well as they had been used to prior to the assault, with disruption of concentration, sleeping patterns and eating habits, for example. They may feel jumpy or be on edge. In the month(s) immediately following the assault these problems may be severe and very upsetting and may prevent the victim from revealing their ordeal to friends or family, or seeking police or medical assistance. This may result in Acute Stress Disorder. Symptoms of this are:

  • feeling numb and detached, like being in a daze or a dream, or feeling that the world is strange and unreal
  • difficulty remembering important parts of the assault
  • reliving the assault through repeated thoughts, memories, or nightmares
  • avoidance of things — places, thoughts, feelings — that remind the victim of the assault
  • anxiety or increased arousal (difficulty sleeping, concentrating, etc.)
  • avoidance of social life or place of rape

So to those parents out there, take good care of your children!